Today is April 19th, and as I have done for the past two years, I will plant flowers in my front garden to honor my late friend, Patrick. I feel the best way to honor special people is to keep their memory alive by doing something life-fulfilling, life-evoking, life-enhancing. Whenever I’m in the presence of plants and flowers, I feel I’m in the presence of light, love, and God. So, it is through nature, that I keep my friend’s memory alive. As spring turns to summer and his flowers continue to bloom, I am reminded of his lively spirit.
With Patrick, I never knew what kind of craziness he’d toss in my path. He treated life like it was an ongoing festival filled with clowns, balloons, candy apples, cotton candy, cold and crisp beer, sunny skies, and gigantic roller coasters. He lived more life in his forty years than most eighty year olds did. If he wanted to travel, he traveled. If he wanted to run a business, he ran a business. If he wanted to get married and have a child, he got married and had a child. If he wanted to careen down a roller coaster with his hands up in the air, then he did so. If he wanted to sing karaoke to a restless crowd, then he sang his heart out. No wasn’t a part of his vocabulary. When he wanted something, he went after it with everything he had.
The big takeaway he left me with was to not take life so seriously. “It’s only life,” he’d say. “What’s the worst that could happen?” I keep trying to take on this spirit. I’m not quite there, yet. I still have reservations and hang-ups about frivolous things that are out of my control and really shouldn’t be allowed to weigh in on the grand scheme of my actions. Nonetheless, I keep trying to live my life each day to the fullest, reminding myself that for each breath I take, I’ve been given a gift.
I look for opportunities to live fuller, to express better, to give more freely.
Has someone left an indelible mark on your life the way Patrick has on mine? Do you stop to reflect when you’re taking life too seriously, maybe even move past that mode and onto something more fruitful and energizing?
When I plant those flowers today, I will do so with the spirit of a child in awe so that each time I view them, I can harness that energy and live a slice of my day in Patrick’s sunny spirit.
Wishing you ultimate success in all that's important to you,
Suzie
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For me it is my older brother. He was larger than life and wild to the core. There's not a second I don't miss him. I try to remember his free spirit and maybe, just a little, I echo it now and then.
Thanks for sharing Suzie. You are always so positive, and always feel a little lifted after reading them.
Hope you have a great weekend x
For me it was always my mother, she always told me to work hard but play even harder! This post was really inspiring I hope your flowers give as much joy to your neighbors as they will to you.
@Dean Yes, hold onto his free spirit and larger than life vibe! I hope your weekend is equally as great;)
@Robert Play harder - great advice to live by! Wihsing you lots of peace and joy;)
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